Negotiating consent: setting boundaries in the sexual contract

Gillian  Abel; Cherida Fraser; Barbara G. Brents; Teela Sanders; Jane Scoular

doi:10.1007/978-3-031-77715-8_3

Negotiating consent: setting boundaries in the sexual contract

Gillian Abel, Cherida Fraser, Barbara G. Brents, Teela Sanders^*, Jane Scoular

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In this chapter, we examine how sex workers learn to negotiate with clients and how they set and maintain boundaries within commercial sex transactions. Expectations for a commercial sex transaction in terms of what services will and will not be provided are set up in the negotiation process. This negotiation constitutes a verbal contract which, in most instances, is adhered to. However, some clients try to push the boundaries of the contract. In some cases, sex workers consider the boundary crossing to be minor and make the decision to accommodate the breach. In other cases, the terms of the contract are themselves breached, and the service becomes non-consensual.

Original language	English
Title of host publication	Voicing Consent
Subtitle of host publication	Sex Workers, Sexual Violation and Legal Consciousness in Cross-National Contexts
Editors	Teela Sanders, Jane Scoular, Barbara G. Brents, Susie Balderston, Gillian Abel
Place of Publication	Cham
Publisher	Palgrave Macmillan Ltd.
Chapter	3
Pages	53-78
Number of pages	26
ISBN (Electronic)	9783031777158
ISBN (Print)	9783031777141, 9783031777172
DOIs	https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-031-77715-8_3
Publication status	Published - 8 Feb 2025

Keywords

human rights
rape
consent
safe sex
social policy
stigma
regulating sex work
sexual assault
harrassment
whorephobia
victimology
public health
decriminalisation of sex work

UN SDGs

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Voicing Consent: Sex Workers, Sexual Violation and Legal Consciousness in Cross-National Contexts
Sanders, T. (Editor), Scoular, J. (Editor), Brents, B. G. (Editor), Balderston, S. (Editor) & Abel, G. (Editor), 8 Feb 2025, Cham: Palgrave Macmillan Ltd. 270 p.
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Abel, G., Fraser, C., Brents, B. G., Sanders, T., & Scoular, J. (2025). Negotiating consent: setting boundaries in the sexual contract. In T. Sanders, J. Scoular, B. G. Brents, S. Balderston, & G. Abel (Eds.), Voicing Consent: Sex Workers, Sexual Violation and Legal Consciousness in Cross-National Contexts (pp. 53-78). Palgrave Macmillan Ltd.. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-031-77715-8_3

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Abel, G, Fraser, C, Brents, BG, Sanders, T & Scoular, J 2025, Negotiating consent: setting boundaries in the sexual contract. in T Sanders, J Scoular, BG Brents, S Balderston & G Abel (eds), Voicing Consent: Sex Workers, Sexual Violation and Legal Consciousness in Cross-National Contexts. Palgrave Macmillan Ltd., Cham, pp. 53-78. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-031-77715-8_3

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Voicing Consent: Sex Workers, Sexual Violation and Legal Consciousness in Cross-National Contexts. ed. / Teela Sanders; Jane Scoular; Barbara G. Brents; Susie Balderston; Gillian Abel. Cham: Palgrave Macmillan Ltd., 2025. p. 53-78.

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Abel G, Fraser C, Brents BG, Sanders T, Scoular J. Negotiating consent: setting boundaries in the sexual contract. In Sanders T, Scoular J, Brents BG, Balderston S, Abel G, editors, Voicing Consent: Sex Workers, Sexual Violation and Legal Consciousness in Cross-National Contexts. Cham: Palgrave Macmillan Ltd. 2025. p. 53-78 Epub 2025 Feb 7. doi: 10.1007/978-3-031-77715-8_3

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