Digital possessions after a romantic break up

Daniel Herron, Wendy Moncur, Elise van den Hoven

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With technology becoming more pervasive in everyday life, it is common for individuals to use digital media to support the enactment and maintenance of romantic relationships. Partners in a relationship may create digital possessions frequently. However, after a relationship ends, individuals typically seek to disconnect from their ex-partner. This becomes difficult due to the partners' interwoven digital presence and digital possessions. In this paper, we report on a qualitative study exploring individuals' experiences of relationship break up in a digital context, and discuss their attitudes towards digital possessions from those relationships. Five main themes emerged: digital possessions that sustain relationships, comparing before and after, tainted digital possessions, digital possessions and invasions of privacy, involved and emotional reminiscing. Design opportunities were identified in managing attitudes towards digital possessions, disconnecting and reconnecting, and encouraging awareness of digital possessions.
Original languageEnglish
Title of host publicationNordiCHI '16
Subtitle of host publicationProceedings of the 9th Nordic Conference on Human-Computer Interaction
Place of PublicationNew York, NY
Number of pages10
ISBN (Electronic)9781450347631
Publication statusPublished - 23 Oct 2016
Externally publishedYes
Event9th Nordic Conference on Human-Computer Interaction, NordiCHI 2016 - Gothenburg, Sweden
Duration: 23 Oct 201627 Oct 2016

Publication series

NameProceedings of the 9th Nordic Conference on Human-Computer Interaction


Conference9th Nordic Conference on Human-Computer Interaction, NordiCHI 2016


  • curation
  • digital
  • divorce
  • HCI
  • identity
  • life transitions
  • media
  • memory
  • relationship break up
  • separation


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